The Changing trend of Social Life
‘Change
is the law of life’ as quoted by John F Kennedy, indeed from the day we are
born , the day we step into our teenage to we get into adulthood and so forth,
the social life revolving around us takes many spins. The pace with which we adjust, adapt
and maintain our relationship with persons as according to our comfort level
shapes our entire scheme of Social life. Social life can also be strictly
viewed as to people we meet on regular basis and share a relationship be as a
friend, mentor, acquaintance.
Social
Life is not a new topic but can be put as a hot potato, the way the society
changes and moulds itself so does the social life changes its outfit. In the
earlier times much before the foundations of the modern society, social life
was much restricted to gathering in its primitive form. As the early society
was predominantly dominated by the male members, social life was majorly on the
male part of the society. Travelling a little further into time when female
part of the society started to gain more recognization in the picture of social
life, the social life yet again enclave newer terms and adapted to female
participation. Social life on general basis cannot be a stagnant.
The
traditions which we follow and culture to we belong are the draws the lines of
our social life, a custom a practice followed in a particular region holds the
same stance. Many Countries has its own way of executing the freedom to which
people can interact for ex Arab States, Western Countries, eastern countries,
Asia , etc. These parameters are influential in one’s life and shape the social
life. Liberation of thought process which again helps in constructing society
flexibility helps in defining the social life.
Teenage
is the most volatile part of one’s life, teenagers sense new feelings, emotions
and a completely different behavior from childhood, it’s the first step towards
ones social life and a major part of
life i.e adulthood. The first change of
social life begins with the teenage, we came across bonds that we make with new
people and perform it to the desire of its significance to us. Scientifically
it has been proved body starts to change and hormones are released which
embodies all the different emotions we carry. Thus proper care and attention
should be kept by one so as to one drop into the healthy and correct part of
social life. Stepping into adulthood is the most important part that sculpts
our social life. This part includes High School, College , Occupation and so
on. This age include many important life events both the ups and down as a part
of life which indirectly supports the bridge of one’s behavior and attitude
towards the people which he interacts.
Now
coming on to the point of changing nature of the Social Life. The world which
we live in today is tangled bush. There are wide array of complexities which we
deal on regular basis. Competition has today taken the world driving force and
as humans being adaptive have adapted this attribute of the world as its own
personal factor. The pure cut in emotions and compassion for the fellow human
being has slowly loosing its importance to this new greater rule of this world
i.e Competition. Friends are also taken as competitors and every bit of our utilities
are absorbed and these as our benefits sometimes cross the fundamentals of friendship
which causes distress in personal life. Social life are now being harnessed and
tempered to fulfills personal greed and targets. The evil behavior which was once a taboo in now a common
practice. Relationships now are held by weak forces of bonds and are easily
build and dismantled in a very short period of time. The issue of Social life
is thus very important as these sudden and drastic changes brings friction and
instability for the young and unprepared class of the society. The bottom line
lies with are we ready to adapt as quick as the situation demands ? Every
individual has its own tolerance limit and adaptability factor for the social
life which he/she is a part. In the end social life for human being is very
important as human beings are social animals, but a moral and ethical structure
should first be installed so that each individual can tackle with the harshness
with which he/she builds his/her own Social life
Deepak
Shrivastava
BA-LLB
; Division D (3rd Year)
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